Texas Collaborative Divorce Attorneys

Working Together to Protect Your Family’s Interests

Even though your marriage is ending, you and your spouse most likely want to protect your children from the stress and conflict of divorce and preserve your financial assets to the greatest extent possible.

In addition, you probably share the goal of avoiding the emotional and financial costs of a litigated divorce. If these things are important to you, working with a Collaborative Divorce lawyer may be the right option for your family.

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What is a Collaborative Divorce?

Collaborative Divorce – also known as the collaborative law process – is a specially designed legal process that enables the spouses to retain greater control over the outcome by committing to resolve the divorce outside of court.

This does not necessarily guarantee that your divorce will be easy or friendly. But, if both of you can make key decisions about your divorce together, with the advice and help of trained Collaborative Divorce attorneys, you can achieve an acceptable, confidential outcome that is more creative than what a judge is allowed to do.

Collaborative Divorce FAQs

When is Collaborative Divorce a Good Option?

Collaborative Divorce is an option for divorcing spouses who agree to keep their case out of the courtroom and who historically have been able to make important decisions together. Most people feel better about solutions they had a hand in creating rather than having solutions imposed upon them. Couples who choose the collaborative model retain and equally share control over the decisions that will affect their future lives instead of handing that power over to a judge or jury.

Divorce is never pleasant, but it is possible to move out of the process without a lot of bitterness and resentment. This is especially important if children of any age are involved, and you have hope for a productive future co-parenting relationship.

How Does a Collaborative Divorce Work?

The signing of the Participation Agreement and the contractually agreed-upon boundaries that are put in place as part of it serve to promote a safe environment that is characterized by confidentiality, mutual respect, and control over the outcome. At the same time, the threat of the courtroom is eliminated.

The participants’ specially-trained Collaborative Divorce attorneys guide the participants through a series of scheduled meetings with pre-planned agendas, during which the participants work their way through the substantive issues that must be addressed and resolved as part of any divorce.

Issues unique to the participants, such as minor children, small businesses, retirement, or complex financial investments can be addressed with or without the assistance of jointly-engaged neutral professionals, such as child specialists, financial consultants, business valuation experts, estate planning professionals, and others. The participants themselves, with the counsel of their respective attorneys, determine whether and when to involve such neutrals.

Once a final agreement is achieved, the Collaborative Divorce lawyers will jointly draft the final documents and file them with the appropriate court for approval.

How Long Does a Collaborative Divorce Take?

The spouses in a Collaborative Divorce will participate in a series of preplanned, face-to-face meetings with a team consisting of their lawyers, along with a neutral mental health professional, and a neutral financial professional. The joint meetings are typically limited to two hours in length and occur on a schedule determined by the clients’ needs and desires. The average collaborative case usually resolves in four to six joint meetings. Any of the highly experienced Collaborative Divorce attorneys in our AustinDallasFort WorthGranburyMidland, and Plano offices can help prepare you for the process and what to expect during these meetings.

What is the Difference Between Collaborative Divorce and Mediation?

Although both Collaborative Divorce and divorce mediation are confidential, non-adversarial methods of resolving family law conflicts without going to court, the similarities end there. Mediation is a process that typically takes place over the course of one or two long days lasting 10 to 12 hours. A neutral third person called a mediator meets privately with each party and his or her lawyer over the course of the day to gather information, explore options, and facilitate a binding agreement.

If an agreement is reached, it is reduced to writing on the spot, and everyone signs the document before adjourning the session. If no agreement is reached, the process typically ends. Mediation is an excellent settlement tool that is highly favored by both the courts and most lawyers because of its high success rate in resolving conflict without going to court. Unfortunately, mediation is most effective when utilized in the shadow of the courthouse. In other words, the optimal time to mediate arises only after the parties have already invested untold thousands of dollars and months of time litigating the conflict. By this point in the case, the parties are usually emotionally exhausted, financially drained, and yet still must face the prospect of a looming final trial date in the near future. This places tremendous pressure on both sides to make high-stakes decisions in an extremely compressed timeframe.

In stark contrast to traditional mediation, the Collaborative Divorce model completely eliminates the threat of the courthouse from the outset. Additionally, instead of creating a high-pressure environment near the end of the case in which the parties are required to make important decisions in one or two marathon sessions, the Collaborative Divorce model schedules multiple shorter meetings from the very beginning of the divorce. These meetings usually last no longer than two hours each and are spread out over several weeks, with Collaborative Divorce lawyers doing offline work behind the scenes in between each meeting. Each meeting has a pre-planned agenda that the parties themselves have a hand in setting, so there are no surprises during the meetings.

As tentative agreements are achieved, they are noted in the minutes of the meeting, but the parties are free to reconsider until all issues have been similarly addressed. At that point, a comprehensive and binding agreement is circulated. Only after all questions and been addressed satisfactorily do the parties bind themselves to the final, comprehensive agreement.

What is Unique About Collaborative Divorce?

The Collaborative Divorce model is completely different than the traditional litigation model for divorce, and it is both established by, and protected by, Texas law. Once the spouses “opt-in” to the collaborative process by signing the Participation Agreement, the judge legally cannot interfere with the divorce process, except in very limited circumstances.

So long as the spouses choose to remain in the process, they remain the sole decision-makers. If either spouse decides to “opt-out” of the process to return to litigation, both spouses must hire new trial attorneys, as the collaborative lawyers are required by Texas law to withdraw. Although most collaborative attorneys are also trial attorneys, they cannot serve in both roles in the same case.

This unique feature of the Collaborative Divorce model enables the whole process to work seamlessly because it keeps the lawyer’s interests aligned with the client’s interests.

How a Collaborative Divorce Attorney Can Help You

If you are considering a legal action such as divorce, a contested property division, or a child custody modification, and you’ve been searching for collaborative divorce lawyers near me, Goranson Bain Ausley lawyers are available in multiple locations in Texas. Our experienced lawyers can help you formulate a strategy that will move you toward a successful outcome. You can find some of the most qualified and effective Collaborative Divorce attorneys in AustinDallasFort WorthGranburyMidland and Plano at our firm, as our team includes former judges and some of the state’s most respected family law attorneys. We offer you a clear perspective that will help you decide whether it is best to pursue your objectives through litigation, Collaborative Divorce, or other alternative dispute resolution methods.

Video Resources on Collaborative Divorce

Is Collaborative Divorce Right for You?

Sarah Aminzadeh Milinsky

Attorney Sarah Milinsky explains what a Collaborative Divorce is, how it's different from a regular courtroom divorce.

Benefits of Collaborative Divorce: How Can it Foster Effective Communication?

Kelly Caperton Fischer

Attorney Kelly Fischer explores how Collaborative Divorce benefits couples by fostering more positive and productive communication, which can lead to a better co-parenting relationship.

Why Does Collaborative Divorce Work Better for Couples?

Kristen A. Algert

In her latest video, Partner Kris Algert explains the benefits of choosing Collaborative Divorce and how it can work better for couples over traditional divorce.

How to Protect Your Family Business in Divorce

Kyle Basinger

Goranson Bain Ausley Partner Kyle Basinger shares the benefits of Collaborative process and why it might be the right option for divorcing business owners.

What is the Difference Between a Collaborative vs Litigated Divorce?

Curtis W. Harrison

Partner Curtis Harrison explains the differences between traditional divorce litigation and a Collaborative Divorce.

Why Collaborative Divorce is a Good Solution for Divorce After 50

Esther R. Donald

Partner Esther Donald describes the nuances of divorce after 50 and shares why Collaborative Divorce might be the right solution for your family.

What Are Key Advantages of a Collaborative Divorce?

The key advantages of a Collaborative Divorce include:

  • Increased Privacy and Confidentiality
  • Increased Control
  • Reduced Conflict
  • Solution-Focused Problem Solving
  • A Team of Specialists Around You
  • More Efficient and Cost-Effective
  • Creative Solutions

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Increased Privacy and Confidentiality: Collaborative cases are private and confidential, and the outcomes are controlled by the divorcing couple rather than by a judge.

Increased Control. Collaborative Divorce participants do not rely on the courts, judges, or rules of procedure to set deadlines or timelines for the case. Collaborative Divorces set their timelines according to the shared decisions of the spouses.

Reduced Conflict: Although emotions frequently remain strong, the level of overt hostility in a Collaborative Divorce is drastically reduced as a byproduct of the process itself. Everyone involved, including the lawyers, are highly motivated by the shared goals of achieving a mutually-agreeable resolution that minimizes additional harm to relationships or the estate. 

Three of the core principles that serve to reduce the overall level of toxicity and overt hostility during the divorce are as follows:

  1. Spouses expressly agree to treat each other with civility, dignity, and respect in spite of their disagreements;
  2. Spouses agree to concentrate on identifying and meeting needs rather than arguing over positions; and
  3. Spouses agree to full and honest disclosure of financial and other information needed to make informed choices.

These Collaborative Divorce principles foster an environment conducive to resolving conflict and finding custom-made solutions that truly fit your needs and the needs of your children, whether they are young or adults.

Solution-Focused Problem Solving. Collaborative Divorce participants can, with the help of their professional team, address and resolve the same temporary and permanent issues that family law judges frequently have to resolve in traditional divorce litigation, including:

  • Who will live in the house?
  • How parents will share time with their children?
  • How the financial needs of the children will be met?
  • How will bills get paid?
  • Will either spouse need to pay spousal support?
  • How will retirement be handled?

A Team of Specialists Centered Around You. Collaborative Divorce participants have the opportunity, but not the obligation, to work with jointly hired neutral counsel to help them with specific parts of their case.

These professionals often bill their time at a lower rate than lawyers. For example, a neutral mental health professional with Collaborative Divorce training can help the parents identify each parent’s interests, goals, and concerns regarding the children, and then develop an effective parenting plan that best meets those interests.

Likewise, a neutral financial professional can efficiently compile, organize, and share all financial information, including assets, liabilities, budgets of income, and expenses, needed to develop potential solutions to the financial issues presented during the divorce.

The use of these neutral professionals is a more efficient use of financial resources than having the lawyers handle everything.

More Efficient and Cost-Effective. Most divorces, even contested ones, ultimately resolve by agreement. Yet couples still routinely hire litigation attorneys to prepare for a contested final trial that almost never actually occurs. That is wasteful and inefficient.

In contrast, every dollar spent by the spouses pursuing a Collaborative Divorce is spent in furtherance of achieving a mutually-agreeable resolution.

Additionally, if a valuation expert is needed for a business or house, instead of hiring two opposing experts at twice the cost, only one, mutually-agreed upon neutral valuation expert needs to be hired.

Creative Solutions. Because participants are not relying on courts for answers, spouses are free to explore many creative solutions to the issues presented in the case. In addition, the Collaborative Divorce team, including the participants themselves, consistently develops options for outcomes during the process that are better for their family than what the law allows in the courtroom.

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Work with an Experienced Collaborative Divorce Attorney

When you’re looking for Collaborative Divorce attorneys in Texas, turn to the top-rated family law firm of Goranson Bain Ausley. The Collaborative Divorce attorneys at GBA are leaders in the legal community who champion the benefits of the Collaborative Divorce process as an alternative to litigated divorce. Over 50% of our lawyers have been collaboratively trained to support families in Texas achieve the best possible outcomes through Collaborative Divorce. We empower families to find productive, customized solutions to family law issues and help them look to the future with confidence. Contact a Collaborative Divorce attorney today to learn more about your legal options.

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