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What Are the Differences Between Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce?

Sarah Aminzadeh Milinsky | May 14, 2025

Divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce are both processes by which couples have the opportunity to resolve conflicts outside of the courtroom. However, there are key differences between these processes that should be considered. Only by comparing divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce can you make an informed decision as to which process is better for your case and your goals for the future.

Reaching a Mutually Acceptable Agreement Separately vs. Together

One of the biggest differences in divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce is that in the mediation process, a neutral mediator will meet privately with each spouse and their divorce attorney, then go back and forth between them offering suggestions and guiding both parties toward an agreement that is acceptable to both sides. In a Collaborative Divorce, everyone is in the same room. You and your attorney, your spouse and their lawyer, and the neutral professionals all gather at once to negotiate a resolution to your case.

With or Without a Court-Imposed Deadline

Another key difference when considering divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce is that divorce mediation is often carried out more quickly, usually because both sides have already begun the litigation process and are under pressure to work out an agreement before their trial date arrives. Mediation often takes one or two very long days to conclude. In contrast, a Collaborative Divorce lacks the pressure of a court-imposed deadline and usually involves shorter meetings that are spread out over the course of a few months, giving both sides time to prepare in between sessions. These varying time frames can be an important factor for those trying to decide whether divorce mediation or Collaborative Divorce is right for them.

If you’re considering either divorce mediation or a Collaborative Divorce, contact us today to speak with the experienced divorce lawyers at Goranson Bain Ausley. We can help you evaluate whether divorce mediation or Collaborative Divorce is right for you and guide you toward the best option for your situation, helping you to achieve an agreeable outcome.