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Specialty tag(s): High-Conflict Divorce, Divorce
Thomas A. Greenwald | March 3, 2025
Divorce is never easy, but it’s especially challenging when you have to deal with a narcissist and divorce at the same time. Divorcing a narcissist brings additional challenges and uncertainties that you and your lawyer must navigate carefully. Narcissists can be relentless in their effort to achieve the outcome they feel entitled to and rarely care about who their actions affect along the way. That is why it is so important to discuss narcissist divorce tactics with your attorney. Anticipating how a narcissist will behave during a divorce will help you to develop a strategy for a successful resolution of your case.
Predicting exactly what a narcissist will do during a divorce can be difficult because narcissism can vary so much from one person to another. Some may be willing to go to more extreme lengths than others to get what they want. However, how narcissists behave in relationships often reflects how they will act during the divorce. There are common characteristics associated with narcissists that you will likely be able to recognize in your spouse.
When dealing with a narcissist, how they behave when exposed to the reality of their marriage ending can be anxiety-producing and intimidating. You never know what they might do during a divorce. They may turn to any one of several different narcissist divorce tactics to get what they feel entitled to in the divorce. These behaviors range from lying to tampering with documents to help prove their case. Understanding the potential tactics that they may use can help you better protect yourself and your children during the divorce.
Tactics to look out for include:
Knowing how a narcissist may behave in a divorce can help you to form a strategy to get through this process. Divorce is a trying time, but divorcing a narcissist can be particularly harmful to your emotional stability and physical well-being.
Here are some coping strategies for how to deal with your spouse’s narcissistic behavior in a divorce:
Even after a divorce is finalized, a narcissist’s need for control, validation, and dominance does not simply disappear. If anything, being left can trigger even more extreme behavior, as they struggle with the loss of power over their former spouse. Their reactions may vary depending on the circumstances, but many narcissists follow predictable patterns post-divorce.
Here are some common ways narcissists behave after a divorce:
While a narcissist’s behavior after divorce can be concerning, understanding what to expect from these post-divorce behaviors can help you prepare and protect yourself. Set firm boundaries, keep detailed records, and work closely with an attorney who can help you manage the challenges of dealing with a narcissistic ex-spouse.
The skilled divorce attorneys at Goranson Bain Ausley have extensive experience dealing with narcissistic partners and high-conflict divorces, and we can guide you through this difficult process as painlessly as possible. Our compassionate attorneys will always put your best interests before all else and work diligently to develop a comprehensive strategy for dealing with an uncooperative or difficult spouse. Contact our offices in Austin, Dallas, Fort Worth, Granbury, Midland, San Antonio, or Plano today to learn more.
Tom Greenwald is an accomplished trial attorney with more than three decades of family law experience. Recognized for his excellence in the field, he has been honored as Best Lawyers Family Law “Lawyer of the Year” in Dallas/Fort Worth and has earned a spot on D Magazine’s “Best Lawyers in Dallas: Family Law” list six times. Tom specializes in handling high-stakes divorce cases involving complicated compensation structures, asset division, private business interests, separate property disputes, and business valuations as well as child custody matters. Tom is committed to practical and cost-effective solutions, and he strives to help clients navigate their cases efficiently while maintaining positive working relationships for the future.
To learn more, contact Tom Greenwald at our Plano family law office.
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