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Essential Tips for a Better Divorce: Insights from GBA Family Law Paralegals on What Every Client Should Know

July 30, 2024

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Navigating through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. The seasoned paralegals at Goranson Bain Ausley have witnessed firsthand what strategies lead to successful outcomes and which pitfalls to avoid. Their professional advice, drawn from extensive experience in family law, aims to support and guide individuals through the process with greater ease and confidence. By adhering to these tips, you can approach your divorce with more confidence, a clearer mind, and a stronger support system, positioning you for a favorable resolution and a secure future for you and your family.

To help you through this challenging time, we’ve compiled a list of essential tips from our experienced paralegals that every client should know at the beginning of their divorce journey.

Trust Your Attorney, Be Honest, and Share Your Complete Story- We’ve got your back.

“Place your trust in your attorney. We are here to fight for your rights, and in that process, clear communication and honesty are pivotal. Our profession is not about passing judgment; rather, it’s about providing support and offering legal perspectives to navigate through your family matters.”

Brenda Aranda

“Be as open and honest with your attorney as you can be. Tell us everything. We have heard it all, and nothing is shocking or surprising.”

– K. Bell

“Litigation doesn’t have to be scary. Listen to your legal team and not your friend’s internet search results! Respond promptly to what is asked of you, and know that we will walk you through this process one step at a time.”

– Victoria Cernadas

“Before your initial consultation, write down a list of important questions you want your attorney to answer and bring them with you to the appointment. Listen to your attorney’s advice and follow their instructions.”

– Mellody Brewer

“Trust your attorney and follow their advice. Our attorneys have your best interests at heart.”

– Michala Moore

“Get in and hold on. Be patient and trust the process. Take a deep breath and know that we’ve got your back and are going to do everything we can to protect you.”

– Becky Stephens

“Your attorney-paralegal team is on your side and here to support and navigate you through the process effectively to achieve the best outcome for you and your family.”

– Heather Ulliman

Stay Organized

“Stay as organized as possible. The more organized you are, the more likely it is for your case to run efficiently. Additionally, trust your attorney and paralegal team. We are here to support and advocate for you.”

– Jessica Cannon

“Keep a notebook where you can write down your questions as you think of them and keep detailed notes on possession exchanges and any other matters that may be important to your case.”

– Marsha Kiss

“To make the best use of your and your attorney’s time and money, keep a notebook of questions so that when you think of something, you can immediately write it down to cover during your next phone call or meeting with your attorney.”

– Laura Lee Hauser

“Regarding supporting documents, it is worth taking the extra time to keep PDF statements organized and separated by account. This will help save you time and money when the attorney reviews the documents.”

– Hayli Marshall

“The more organized you are, the more successful your case will be. Whether that means organizing your financial information and documents, or organizing your children’s information, if applicable. No matter how large or small the case is, your attorney will need all that information, so the quicker you can get that information to your attorney in an organized manner, the more efficient your attorney can be in helping you with your situation.”

– Cindy Watts

“Be very careful what you put in writing – it can and will be used against you in court!”

– Renee Wettengal

Keep Your Focus on What is Most Important, Including Children

“When parents get along, it’s a gift to the children. Prioritize your children by refraining from speaking ill of the other parent, even if it feels justified. Your children will appreciate your efforts, especially as they grow older.”

Christi Wilson-Fager

“Focus on what you can control! This mindset will help you navigate through the uncertainties of the divorce process with more clarity and less stress.”

– Libby Christman

“Don’t get caught up in the drama. Keep your focus on what’s best for your family right now to ensure a more positive outcome for everyone involved.”

– Sandy Glashan

“I understand how emotionally draining and mentally exhausting this process can be. Remember, your children are just as emotionally vulnerable as you are. Let your love for them guide your decisions, rather than your feelings towards your ex.”

– Meredith Lanis

“No one truly wins in a divorce; it’s a process to help you move forward to the next chapter of your life. Keeping this perspective can help you focus on what really matters.”

Rona Natal

“Feelings are not facts, and they don’t last forever. However, the choices you make during your case will have lasting impacts. Trust your attorney to help you make informed decisions based on facts, not emotions.”

– Caroline Rose

Seek Support from a Counselor, Friends, and Family

“Divorce can be overwhelming, so don’t hesitate to seek counseling if you’re struggling to cope. If children are involved, support them through this difficult process. Avoid discussing all the details with them or using them as messengers.”

– Natalie Turner

“Family law cases can be extremely stressful. Prioritize your physical and mental health during this time. Seek support from friends and family to help you navigate through this challenging period.”

– Connor Westhoff

By following these expert tips from the paralegals at Goranson Bain Ausley, you can approach your divorce with a well-organized, focused, and problem-solving mindset, leading to a smoother and more successful resolution for you and your family.

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